Muyassar Sattarova

  Do we all realize who we are actually? Just a human? Are you sure? Do you know who built the wonders of the world? The Pyramids in Egypt? Who constructed a plane? Who created A-bomb? We are accustomed to the term “human” so much that mostly it doesn`t mean the whole might a person owns. There are not-incapable people, but indifferent ones, who don`t care about their lives. It`s safe to be in our comfort zones. However, not to attempt or act doesn`t mean not to fail.   Coming to this world and not using your power to create is the same as having wings but not flying. Once my brother visited me. The inscribed-on-his-T-shirt got my attention. Moreover, I came across that quote at the very period of writing this chapter: It said, “Tolerance is another word for indifference”. Unfortunately, the manufacturer of T-shirt seemed to forget to write the author of the aforementioned brilliant words. I suppose, despite a huge number of the same or analogous feature, tolerance and indif...

  Our following tremendous enemy is fear. Can you believe that just a few words may destroy someone`s life? I believe! Why? Think about it! You may have earned more money. You could live your dream life. You deserve perfect relationship! What is indeed? Are you satisfied with your life? Is it ideal? If your answer is “Yes’, congratulations, you have gone mad! If not, you are still alive! Let me ask you one question: “Why didn`t you manage to get what you really deeply wish?” You couldn`t do that, because your enemies were stronger than you, like doubts envy and fear! Pay attention to the last one. Only four letters.   These four letters make us stay locked within our comfort zone sometimes. These letters don`t allow us admit our love before our loved ones. These very four letters get us come back when there are few steps towards success left. What is the reason? Because, we let those letters guide and rule us. We were afraid to take the responsibility for our life on ourselv...

  Once upon a time, there lived a swan and a frog. No one could match the swan when it came to her beauty. She was also the wisest in the forest where she inhabited. Despite her young age, she had enough enemies around her, but the frog was the most envy of them. Under the mask of friendship the frog turned the swan`s close friend. For the former was warm-hearted and kind she trusted her new companion. However, the frog couldn`t help hating and envying her. He always tried to imitate and prove that he was able to commit more than his friend could.   One day the swan rose and flew into the sky. Her long white wings seemed so attractive that the frog felt jealous again. The more he tried to fly the more frustrated he became. For what he could do was to jump up. Disappointed with his failure his envy turned into anger. It clouded his mind so much that he decided not to give up. So, he climbed the highest mountain and got ready to fly away. At the very top of it, he promised to ...

  Sometimes some troubles strike us so hard that we replay the same thing over again in our minds. In my opinion, we don`t merely come to overthinking, but fear, anger or doubts get us analyze something repeatedly. Getting rid of the first causes, you may prevent overthinking. We mustn`t mistake overthinking with brainstorming. To brainstorm means to search for a way solve a concrete problem. So, you think with an aim. And, when you are overthinking about something doubts hesitation anger and fear attack your brain like arrows. Overthinking, varying from other inner enemies can`t cause harm on its own. Analyzing something too much, you may lose time.   Overthinking was one of the most serious problems for me whenever. After a year`s of investigation I chose some means to stop overthinking.   Writing  Someone told: “If you think without taking notes at all, you`ll waste your time.” I thought that I had already known that rule. However, putting my ideas in paper, ...

  Who doesn`t respect or value himself? This question may seem even offensive since no one is going to respond. No! However, don`t hurry to conclude! If everyone respect himself, why on Earth do some people offend each other or swear? We can`t say everybody is courageous enough to admit what they want when it comes to setting a life-goal. Self-respect was a turning point in my life. In fact, there is a slight difference between doing a favor to someone and appreciating yourself. Some years ago, I had no friends even though I attempted to be friendly as much as possible. However, I failed to make even a single companion.   Once I asked myself what I did wrong to deserve it. Why does no one want to accompany me while some others were in the center of attention although they gossiped, complained, offended, humiliated, offended one another remaining friends. I was astounded: how are the truest feelings left without attention when people who lacked both deep pure feelings and any...

  Our life is divided into three: past, present and future. They all play an important role in our success, and failure. Knowing the secrets of their functions, one can accomplish more than we may think… It seems quite simple to name our yesterday, today and tomorrow. However, these three periods work for or against us depending on our attitude towards them. According to time, people are divided into three groups:   People who are living in the Past. People, who live in the Present. People, who live in the future.   How can you know if you live in the past or future? In order to answer this question you should learn yourself investigating the following aspects: Do you often or sometimes recall something unpleasant or the time when you weren`t lucky? Do you blame your parents or loved ones because they didn`t treat you as you wished? Does your anger last long if you get annoyed with someone or something? Do you always tell your loved people or friends that they ...

  What do you think to become lazy means? How do people turn lazy? What is your opinion if it`s useful or not to be a lazy person? I suppose the number of such kinds of questions is less than the answers to them. Like other killing-from-inside habits or enemies of humanity, laziness has a great variety. They weren`t confirmed officially though. So do its reasons! Let me guess! Perhaps, someone gives up hope because of the failure over again. Or, he is fed up with struggling and lack of results, then he decides to be in his comfort zone. They know the comfort zone guarantees their safety.   Before turning to the details, let`s look through the term more precisely. Why? Because, it may help you become more active and self-confident if you can control it. Now, what is a comfort zone? Mostly, it`s not a special place. It`s just a state of convenience. Within this zone, you feel more relaxed happier, calmer in one word, better. A zone of comfort takes a form within our minds and ...