SELF-RESPECT | HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF | HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE RESPECT YOU | THE ART OF LOVE | HOW TO LOVE AND BE LOVED
Who doesn`t respect or value himself? This question may seem even offensive since no one is going to respond. No! However, don`t hurry to conclude! If everyone respect himself, why on Earth do some people offend each other or swear? We can`t say everybody is courageous enough to admit what they want when it comes to setting a life-goal. Self-respect was a turning point in my life. In fact, there is a slight difference between doing a favor to someone and appreciating yourself. Some years ago, I had no friends even though I attempted to be friendly as much as possible. However, I failed to make even a single companion.
Once I asked myself what I did wrong to deserve it. Why does no one want to accompany me while some others were in the center of attention although they gossiped, complained, offended, humiliated, offended one another remaining friends. I was astounded: how are the truest feelings left without attention when people who lacked both deep pure feelings and any talent. Again, books showed me all of my faults. I couldn`t believe my minds, but I didn`t only lack self-respect, but also I didn`t care about myself at all. Conclusions after conclusions transformed the view of my life and I began to change. Before I hurried to help someone not caring if I had time and potentials to avail. I supposed it was right, but…
What I understood was the greatest law of life. Love yourself as much as you want to be loved. If we apply this formula in self-respect, respect yourself as much as you want to be respected. To be friendly doesn`t mean to put others` benefits above yours, at the same time, not to humiliate or behave selfishly. All our life we learn people nature subjects, everything round. However, the most urgent subject is yourself. To respect and appreciate yourself, you must know and realize what you are good at, or what you really hate. I`m going to share my secrets with you so that you can apply my techniques when and where necessary.
Principles
This step may be the hardest as you`ll have to set and obey your principles yourself first. You can`t follow the principles on your own. It`s exhausting to obey the principles, which are the product of observing and experiencing. You`ll start to keep your principles if you are convinced of and understand that this or that principle work for you. The first thing what I taught myself was to say “No” time by time when necessary. I paid careful attention to what pleased or annoyed me.
It`s almost impossible to make up or realize your principles in a short period of time. It requires some months or years of hard-working attempting and filtering, etc. The lessons of life vary from as they are at schools, for life doesn`t inform us the schedule of its classes in advance. However, there is no need getting frustrated: If you seek, you`ll find. Never let your inner enemies control you. As you`ve already been aware, you`ll decide if you do something or not.