When you know where you are going you can visit that place. If you don`t know where to go you will go nowhere. The place you are willing to go is your aim. If you wish about a big house, but you don`t know how it looks like, how many rooms there are in your dream house and other details, how can you know what kind of a house to buy? So, firstly make your dream clear in all its details.
I often hear my parents say “What kind of successful lucky people are they?” Can you tell me what the distinction is between the successful and the losers? This question always interested me. One day I came across an article on the Internet. I couldn`t learn the article, but I remember the most important lines “Success starts from defining what that success means for you.” Well, I suppose that you understand how necessary a clear aim is. Now, you`ll face another problem how to clarify what you want. Trust me it`s not so simple as you think about it. However, there always is a way. Some scientists created their own method of defining one`s aim and achieving it. They differ in number, content, methods and so on. I think it is very nice, because we are different. Each of us has own character, taste and certain standards. I mean you can choose any of those technics presented on the World Wide Web.
I must admit that I used such kind of tests some years ago. It helped me, so I decided to describe it here:
First, take a sheet of paper and write what you like!
Second, from the list you`ve just filled in, you must choose the only one which has advantages over the others!
According to the other method, you must ask yourself what you would do if you knew that today was your last day on earth, or imagine what you would like to do even if you know that nobody is going to pay you.